Writing a birth plan is sort of like going to do a CrossFit
WOD. You've practiced the movements and the skills and you have great
expectations of what the WOD will be like.
I recall driving to the box every morning before the sun was up and the
anticipation I felt. What would be written on the whiteboard, what limits was I
going to push my body to that day? Was it going to be a strength day with heavy
lifting or maybe a metcon? CrossFit is all about training and preparing for the
unknown. Birth is sort of like CrossFit. You know that baby is going to be born
vaginally or through a c-section. You know it is going to hurt, mentally and
physically but you don’t know how you will do until you are in the middle of
it. You write a birth plan, which is an
outline of how you would like things to go. You have preferences in mind of how
you would like to labor and what type of pain intervention you want. But really it is just like a WOD. You see the
WOD for the first time on the whiteboard and immediately you start to develop a
plan. Do you need to scale the weight? Do you need to make sure you pace
yourself? Maybe you loaded up your bar too heavy and you realize after round 2
that you need to take some weight off. Or maybe you underestimated yourself and
you didn't put enough weight on the bar and maybe you need to add some to make
your load more challenging. You can develop a plan based on your experiences
but you really just don’t know until you are in the midst of it. Maybe that
weight is just right but you just need to challenge yourself and push through.
Sometimes the battle is more mental than physical. Maybe you have to tell
yourself just one more rep, one more round, one more step at a time until you
get to that next step or that next rep.
You can read all about birth and the stages of labor but
frankly you are making a plan and going in blind. It is okay to have to
reevaluate after you start and that is why it is just a plan.
I know in general, how I want to approach this “WOD” if you
will, but I don’t know how much load I can bear until I get to that point. I
know what I want the outcome to be and I have to be flexible to get to that
point. Maybe I have a physical limitation that keeps me from “performing” as I
would like so then I have to adapt and make it work for me. Maybe your hands will tear… maybe other things
will tear… ouch! Maybe you surpass your expectations or maybe you fall
short. Either way, as long as you put in
the effort then it doesn't matter whether you finished first or last or whether
you had to scale or did it as prescribed.

Impressive analogy Elise and yes you do go in blind, but you find yourself amazed and in wonderment during the pain and it doesn't seem so bad. Then when you finally are beyond exhausted, but you are handed your newborn, to hold for the first time, you find yourself forgetting all about the pain, and instead enter into a world of love and tenderness. I found myself on that day 36 years ago, unwrapping a tiny blanket so I could see and touch his little toes, kiss his nose, and talk to him as tears rolled down my cheek. It is a feeling I have never forgotten, and one I cherish always, as you will too. Hugs.
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